Badger
Very helpful member
- Joined
- Apr 2, 2021
- Messages
- 567
- Reason
- DX FIBRO
- Diagnosis
- 01/2001
- Country
- UK
It sounds like you have been through a great deal, my heart goes out to you not having the support of your mother, but it's good to know that your late friend was such a positive part of life. It reminds me of a cousin and her strained relationship with her mother. Fortunately now she is a grandmother of six herself and much loved by the family. The last few years been difficult after her stroke but she is battling on.@Badger i should also add, im not perfect, im not always strong, there are times when i resent how strong i have had to be to survive but the resenting times are few and far between. My mother will never see that she did anything wrong or acknowledge it, and therefore dwelling on it is a waste of my very precious time and energy. I also know that my younger brother and sister and not to blame for my mums choices, i have a good relationship with my younger siblings but its more as a mother figure as opposed to a sister one.
It's nice to hear that you have a good relationship with your siblings, I'm the youngest and my own brother (15 years older) has been a great support after our mother and sister passed in the last few years. I appreciate the eldest sibling can have a lot weighing on their shoulders. You are a credit to your family.