MercyL
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- 01/1986
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- CO
Hi there and welcome to the forum. I take Neurontin for pain medication. It works well when combined with other medications and is not addictive.
I am allergic to most of the meds they have for fibro, so I use the neurontin with Excedrian Migraine pills. I think that if you can reduce the stress in your life as much as possible, that alone will help reduce your pain.
When we find out we have fibro often times we still think we can multi-task or think that by getting as much done as possible in one day will somehow make life easier. All it does is make our muscles tighter to the point they can not relax and the tighter they are the more we hurt. Learn to pace yourself and not expect everything to get done in a day, or a week. Stop being a perfectionest and do what you can and let the rest go.
That is much harder to do then you think because most of us are good workers and try to do as much as we can without stopping to take a rest. But with fibro you must relax or you will be in constant pain. Relax by watching movies or children at play. Read a good book or take a nap. Take a slow walk in the park and enjoy nature. Don't speed walk just go slow and enjoy yourself. Start a new hobby or pick up an old one. Take bubble baths. etc....
Hope some of this helps you, or gives you ideas on how to slow down and smell the roses. Have a good day!
The most difficult type of patience to have is the patience we should have with ourselves.
I catch myself getting physically tense when I concentrate on a task for more than 20 minutes at a time. That sounds pretty long but after 10 minutes I start feeling those little twitches and tics in my torso as the muscles start objecting.
This is a huge improvement because I have learned to listen to my body to catch things before the pain broke through to get my attention. I used to squirm while seated at the computer, beyond 10 minutes, as the pain grew more intense and my brain would keep saying "do two more, then take a break".
I would look up, only to find I'd been telling myself that for a full 2 hours before I absolutely had to stop and take that break!