@Grace3 , I have had a lot of experience with tramadol.
I know that some people say categorically that tramadol doesn't work for Fibromyalgia pain, or you have to keep taking more and more, and other things, but the truth is that it depends entirely on the individual. For me, Tramadol has worked
far better than anything else I have taken.
It is addictive, being an opiate. which doesn't mean everyone will get addicted to it, and whether you do or not depends on how much you take and how often and your physical ability to utilize it and your own susceptibility to addiction and other factors.
If taking something that is addictive, one needs to be aware of these factors and take them into account. One needs to weigh the risks against other things. How old someone is is a big factor -- it's quite different to allow yourself to become addicted to something that will give you a half decent life for the last 10 years of your life as opposed to become addicted to something at 25. And there's a difference between addiction and dependency.
@Grace3 , just an opinion you may not even want, and not trying to tell you what to do, but following the doctor's orders when taking these meds is really a good idea because doing what you decide to do that is different can really have negative consequences. I'm not a proponent of thinking the doctors are gods, or of always doing everything they say, as they don't always know best and they are only human, but when weaning off or onto a medication I personally think it's wise to do as they say. Or to call them and tell them you want to do it differently and see what they say to that. One important reason for this is that if a doctor decides a person is a "disobedient" or "recalcitrant" patient, it may go on the person's record and make it a lot harder in the future for that person to get medications.
Years ago I took tramadol daily, but had to keep increasing the dosage, so I stopped it and went on my search for other ways to manage fibro. The other ways worked well for me for many years, but eventually I have reached a point where, probably due in part to my age and non-fibromyalgia factors related to that, the pain is at a daily level that I have started taking it again. But I only take 50mg a day,
never more, and I don't take it every day. If I have a really bad day on one of the days that I have decided not to take it, then I just get through that bad day; I don't change my mind and take tramadol. This is how I intend, and hope, that I will not develop an addiction to the drug. For the past several months this has been my strategy. Cannot predict the future.
I'd really rather not take it, or any drug. But having tried just about everything else that is currently available, it's the only thing that works and doesn't have unbearable side effects. I use cannabis as well, and it helps. But if I am really in pain, it takes enough cannabis to ease the pain that I am then very stoned, which I cannot allow in the daytime because I don't live with other people and have to be able to function if necessary.