I'm so sorry that you lost your job, people will never understand this condition unless they live with it themselves. Yes, any type of negative stress will make your symptoms worse. You have to do good things for yourself and just keep hanging in there as you try different things that might relieve some of your symptoms. I really believe that emotional stress is a major trigger for Fibromyalgia as well as for most other conditions. When your body is in a constant state of flight or fight, it drains every part of you from the physical to the emotional. You have to eat really well, get enough sleep everyday, and do some form of exercise to keep your symptoms at bay. Meditation and music do seem to help me to cope with this condition a lot of times when I just don't think that I can go on one more day. I hope that some of these suggestions will help you to feel better. I hope that you feel better soon.