I know this is very late, but I just figured this out and I'd like to see if It helps others. First, I've had tender points since I can remember around 5yo when my cousin would hold me down and thump on my chest. I would cry and he'd call me a baby, etc.
When I was 11yo I moved to Oregon and the pain grew to the point that at 16 I told my doctor. He dismissed it as growing pains. At 18, I yelled at the doctor because he wouldn't do anything and I asked him, "Why am I paying you? Aren't you supposed to help me. If this is what it feels like to get old, KILL ME NOW!" They next appointment, they poked me 6 times and said I had fibromyalgia.
It's been 39 years and the doctors have tried everything drug wise (Mostly telling me to workout because I was 230lbs). Slowly I stopped going outside for anything but work and I had to take meloxicam and tramadol just to make it. I would take the meds 5 days a week and lay in pain all weekend for over 10 years. Then I was fired (twice, the second time two years later) for having to leave work because of the pain. Illegal much Walmart?
A friend pointed me to a shuttle company and I became one of their drivers. I quit smoking cigarettes about this time which also lowered my pain and I started going to gym because I was use to running around a store for 12 hours a day. After a few weeks, the pain only lasted 10 minutes at the gym before the adrenaline kicked in, but the pain was back within 30 minutes.
I was about 280lbs at this point, but people said I carried it well. I have no idea what that means. I didn't have healthcare and I my blood pressure made it illegal to be on the road as a commercial driver. So, I had to quit.
And back to Walmart. I cut back on sugar because I was diagnosed a pre-diabetic and it helped with the pain quite a bit, but that just let me stop taking tramadol. Not being a manager reduced my stress and working in the produce department help with exercise. Then I started getting promoted again and again. I kept the stress down and the physical movement up.
Then covid hit. High stress, no employees. I had to run and manage two people and myself covering the bakery/deli/produce/frozen/meat/diary. After 2 years of that, I had to take a medical leave.
They fired me again.
I took the first job I could find, but supporting a house of 6 on minimum wage is hard. We ate a lot of rice, potatoes, and noodles. I didn't have medical, but my brother gave me his old blood testing "stuff" and I was in the 400's. I was now a full diabetic. My weight shot up to 350lbs in the 2 months it took me to get medical. (I'm down to 290lbs, but it's slow going).
I started using medical marijuana (edibles) and I have found I must use indica, CBDx and sativa seemed to cause pain in my mid-back, shoulders and neck.
I switched jobs and re-gained medical. I asked my doctor for something for anxiety because I can't stand the taste of marijuana. I also didn't like that the pain had turned me into a very angry person, ready to yell at everyone. She gave me Buspirone and it helped with the pain (for a few weeks), but did nothing for the anxiety.
Currently I'm have been having really bad stomach problems off and on for a few weeks (I can't keep liquids down by them selves) and my sciatic nerve have been hurting more and more everyday. I might just have a bug or what is causing the pain and that might be causing the stomach problems. Either way, I haven't taken any oil and I'm in a lot of pain.
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Today, I called out sick because of the stomach problems and I just happen to catch a documentary about Histamine. Longer story shorter, I took 20mg Loratadine (Claritin). The company that makes Loratadine calls this an overdose!!! But, a doctor for the FDA block Loratadine for a few years because he said the effects are only greater than placebo at a minimum dose of 40mg. The company didn't want to raise it to 40mg because anything over 10mg causes drowsiness in a non-drowsy antihistamine.
At first, I was a little sleepy, but my lingering pain is gone. I do feel the tightness from my sciatic nerve. If I sit the wrong way I do get the burning pain under my right shoulder blade near the spine and my stomach is still "bubbly".
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If anyone is maxed out on their meds like I was and the doctors are unwilling to give you anything for break-though pain, try a generic Claritin or two and let me know if it helps. I'm starting to think most of my problems are linked, but the doctors never looked passed fibromyalgia for me.
Sorry for the wall of text, but I don't talk about pain or fibromyalgia with the family because they just say, "You are always in pain" or "You always hurt."