Laughter yoga (look it up on you tube), beautiful art on Pinterest, Soul Collage get together on meetup. Aromatherapy. And I just read Jenny Lawson new book Furiously Happy that actually had laugh out loud moments about her chronic illness. Ie, I will do anything if it'll boost serotonin and help me feel better briefly.
If I am more relaxed and happy, then the choices I make about foods, commitments, etc. seem to be wiser and more mindful for what is best for me, rather than thinking what I HAVE to get done NOW or what I think others need from me NOW. If my brain is less foggy then I can choose things that are healthiest and less stressful. Also researching herbs such as schizandra and ashwaganda to reduce effects of stress on body. Already practice deep breathing, mindful mediation, anti inflammatory diet.
For me, I practice homeostasis. Keeping things that work for me in balance as best as possible. This way when I flare up I can usually pinpoint the trigger, or if not, just stick to my usual practices that I know will boost my brain feel good chemicals to get me through it. Transformational breathwork is pretty effective for relief when you are in crisis, i.e., overwhelmed with bad pain and feeling down.
All these things take PRACTICE before they become a habit. The hardest thing is to just try them...it is easier to take a pill or many pills but (for me) the positive side effects from laughter, breathwork, art, good foods, herbal supplements, acupuncture outweigh any effects I've received from most rx drugs...
I work full time and I find the stress of my work varies day to day, much of which is out of my control. I try to control the things I can: my diet, my stress response, my connections to positive people and blogs, committing to watching funny you tube videos at lunch while I eat, or listening to binaural beats while I read this blog. I'm fed up with feeling crappy most of time and am now committed to try and do whatever positive thing to help me feel better.