okay i need some awnsers or suggestions...

hey guys, just found this group and thought I would give it a shot, maybe some of yal can help me with some awnsers.. my rhumatoligist diagnosed me with fibro in nov 2017. i dont know what im supposed to do or how i can accomplish work or anything i am a single mom of 2 kids. i have not been able to return to work since july 2017 i dont know whether to try for disablility or what to do i also have crohns disease, celiac diease and ibs. i feel weak 5 out of 7 days. some days it takes everything i have to get up just to go to the bathroom. i havent told my family because i have always been the strong one and its horribly embarrassing and i dont know how to tell them. they think im just being lazy. i had a many back surgery oct 2017. 8 months ago. and im still healing from it. i feel lke my best isnt good enough. my rhumatoligist disagnosed me and then hasnt done anything else. i dont know what im supposed to be doing to get better, i just feel like im getting worse. i just need some awnsers... suggestions or some guidance