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[Lara Berman]

I've reached a point where I'm at the end of my finances and feel like I have no options left. I live in a country that provides no disability support and the with the pain im in at the moment plus not being able to sleep has meant that finding another job is impossible. I have two children who still need me although they are 17 and 22. My older son has borderline personality disorder and stays in a step down facility. We all have depression. Although my family are well meaning there is not any practical support forthcoming. We have a social worker who is trying to help us. My daughter is going away next year. I struggle at the moment to do basic things and the reality of my limitations has hit me now. As people around me do not understand this I isolate myself during flare ups. Any advice

 

[cmetryme]

hello,

learn what you can.
read my post under general discussions what is fibromyalgia.
this will help with making folks understand your pain.

 

[Forgetmenot]

Having a flare is something that drives many ppl to wanna run and hide till it's over your not alone there.
And to be honest the last thing u want is well meaning ppl around all the time.unless there going to make u dinner or help with the washing . And let's face it most ppl just want your time. That's not to say some ppl have wonderful friends ,but don't feel bad for wanting lock yourself away for a few days xx