Hi Moe, I was actually excited to read this post!!! I know sounds crazy. First if you can find a post I responded to recently to grywolf, I too was living in a home that had hidden blak mold (we had if tested and it was possative for aspergilius) I've learned a TON while bed ridden fro this thing called fibro, we moved out of that house but my son and I have continued to go down hill, there is a gene some have that prevents chelation of mold. I know mold us a fungus but I've just learned it is also considered parasitic (also known to be a cause of fibro). I've got some tips if your interested message me (no I'm not selling anything)! It was I believe actually one of your post about an article of a dentist finding both mold and parasites behind a patients tooth that made me realize it could be both!
Anyway, about living with this mold, PLEASE do some thorough research on how to get rid of it properly (it is now in everything including your heat/air system). Move out temporarily if you can. I know the enormous nature of this undertaking (I lived between our garage (storms) and a tent while our rental company jerked us around for two months b4 we paid to have it tested then paid to relocate! All if this while I was desperately sick.
If you message me great, if not I get it. But either way please keep us posted.
Much love and for you I truely hope this is the answer.