Pain beyond belief

I am currently a 54 year old woman. When this all began in 2009 I was very healthy and active. Now in 2017, my body has been hurting for at least 8 years. It all started with herniated discs in my lower back. That was the worst pain I have ever had, even worse than childbirth. I began to slow down, things started to creap up on me. I had pain in my body, but every person does, right?? My knees, my hips, my feet my hands...everything just started to hurt. Sleeping and waking up are the worst for me currently. Drs couldn't figure out what was happening with me. Is it RA? or Lupus? they decided on Fibromyalgia with chronic fatigue...for now. It's so hard to explain your pain because you mostly look ok.